When I first got divorced, It was hard to imagine being married again.  Obviously, after the dust settled on my divorce I began thinking about Miss Right.  When or if she came along, would I know?  I thought I knew last time, but that didn’t work out.  Would I even be desirable being a single father? 

All of these questions and more, I’m sure are running through your head also.  It’s natural to wonder who we will end up with and will it be forever, especially since we already thought we said “forever” once. 

While I fully believe in dating and finding someone to love again is very important and fufulling, it’s not essential.  You need to focus on your own likes and dislikes, your children’s well being, your family that sourrounds your, your true friends, and your finances. 

There is a time and place in your life when you will meet someone to spend your life with.  You have to have faith in that and then put it aside.  Enjoy the journey you are on currently.  You get a chance to start over.  I don’t just mean with another companion.  It will come in time.  You have plenty to be thankful for right now.  You just need to look around!

Len :: Jan.23.2009 :: Caring for Yourself After Divorce :: No Comments »

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